The Tea Shop- Trinity Market-Hull

Hello and welcome back

Today's blog features 

The Tea Shop

I received a message from Trinity Market via Twitter, it began with mentioning The Tea Shop

Twitter which is a hive for creativity, robust in connections and deluged for someone like me with amazing companies and traders who offer the finest produce and products

After a very busy winter season and some extremely full days I managed to make it to the market

We all have to agree 2017 and Hull being the City Of Culture kinda swept us up and spat us out a fair few times, in my case more so

You may not have seen much of me but behind closed doors, I was off doing some major work within the city making sure businesses ran smoothly via my consultation

I had a whole day to investigate things or shall I say all things I had been missing out on

After seeing so many people talking about Trinity Market I really needed to get down and see what the fuss was about  

Of course, I'd seen the back part of the market change from what was a really and frankly gross drinkers bar

It had little to no place in that space and it was wonderful to see the market have money plowed into it and that bar gone for good

I was really happy to see the fruit & veg stall still there I used to be a Pie girl, yep I was the first girl in the kitchen and the vibe of the market and that part of town was really buzzing

The market itself has vastly changed, when I was a kid the floor wasn't even level and birds hung feathers and all, barrow boys ran around and it was chaos, it had true northern grit

I'm a Hull girl, grits in the blood

So to the space of Trinity Market

Of course, it's changed open, bright, fresh and has a mezzanine it's all very continental

Happily, The Tea Shop was open, brimming from shelf to shelf with the most exotic and brimming with delicious teas

Tea's and all the accessories 

everything you'll need to have a good solid brew

A clever little idea, take your tea, a very pretty cup teaware, and infusers all in one shop and go home to enjoy!

So that I did

My choice out of over a hundred teas

was Peach Melba 

I'm hoping in all sincerity that made you smile

Peach Melba is a staple, a true classic 

You know when you say something and it takes you back to the scent, taste, and textures

My first thought above drinking this tea was how can I infuse this tea into something to eat?

Jelly, a shortbread, a jam, a glaze, in a cream

Honestly, I still haven't decided

So it began with a film, bed and a hot water bottle 

okay and a really shite film

(shite isn't swearing, my mam said)

However the tea was good, I'd even warmed the cup up in the oven

The cup is hugely important though, bought in John Lewis specifically for soup I let that go and used it for the tea

The peach melba smell took me back to a beach as a kid, from what I remember the beach had a hut and all these flavours of ice cream

I remember my first peach melba taste and sensation 

The Tea from The Tea Shop took me right back as a kid feet in the sand on the beach looking out to the sea, probably with my step-sister nagging to try it

Instead of sand in my toes, I dug further under my duvet and blankets (all five of them) and drank the tea, warm, gentle and the steam was smoudling around the room embracing the cold and there was I enjoying every drop of that tea

The second time was this morning 

I get a Wednesday off so it felt a perfect opportunity to lay in, 

sleep well and put the stove top kettle on that sings to me make a brew, make a bacon sarnie 

(To the posh lot a bacon sandwich darling) 

Sat at the table with a warm glow through the blind in the kitchen there's a mix of a sweet melba sat in the pot with a knitted lil blanket over it picked up at 

Dove House 87 (Newland Avenue)

and the salty smokey bacon with soft white bread

The Melba was and is a perfect start to my day

the market and The Tea Shop is a true institute and a firm stayer to a growing and developing market 

I'm going to head back, buy more, share more and more than likely blog more about those teas and those memories

If you'd like to know more about

The Tea Shop, Hull

Which if course you would

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http://teashophull.co.uk/

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FOLLOW UP to Dating, failing and a shot to the head!

I wanted to do a follow up on my dating blog

The t-shirt I have on in the photo pretty much sums up my feelings/thoughts and rhetoric 

Following the whole

#MeToo 

Movement it's really important that men know the line

There is a line

No means no

Sexual harassment isn't a joke 

If you think it is you are the problem let alone part of it

I hope you get arrested if you belittle anyone

Emotional abuse isn't okay

Don't make others feel shitty because you can't control yourself

The same applies

Sexual assault isn't okay

Read up learn what

RAPE BY DECEPTION IS

The same applies

The amount of crap I have dealt with what I cannot call dating is unreal and the stories I hear of men thinking they can hound women, at work, on the bus, in bars or even in their own homes is gross

I wanted to write down and go through some things

Things that concern me, make me question men and made me realize the number of men 'dating' are not really looking to date they are looking to use

Men on dating sites are often broken, deeply wounded and are so far gone they'll do anything to please themselves 

In no order that's relevant 

Dating should consist being polite, so this means saying hello during the day

Showing interest, showing thought and mindfulness

That doesn't, of course, mean either party should bombard anyone, with calls, texts etc etc

A 

hello, how are you, I was thinking about you so thought I'd say hello

Is really nice, it's all about the feel-good factor, otherwise why are you dating 

(If that's out of the realms, fuck off go away and don't even attempt to bother anyone with your sad excuses)

Dating

Surely you get dressed up?

You make an effort, for yourself and to be like a peacock and show your prowess

I love dressing up nice, I like feeling glam, looking sharp and taking care of myself

So why would anyone turn up in shitty shoes, a work jacket and work cloths?

Then say they are wanting to date?

Bullshit

No one should expect to be told they look nice but it's nice to be nice, it's nice to know someone paid attention to you and made the effort themselves

It's a total let down when you know someone can look nice

(because on their dating profile they were well dressed, they added those photos so you felt attracted to them and was impressed)

Go on call me superficial but then look a tit because we all know first impressions are what we go on

I dare you to lie and bullshit otherwise

Second dates

Always a little less formal

Always a little less tense 

Feel good, more so if you didn't what my last date said 'shag' on the first date

which frankly was rank, along with the word 'bants' fine if you are ten years old and on the playground but less if you want to go around calling people who live around you chavs when you sound and act like one yourself

and calling an ex a bitch

That's right dude, I needed to hear that well done

There are meant to be sparks, not cracks

A totally intense instant feeling of wanting

Okay, that might be a little much

However, passion is literally something I am addicted to, a deep hunger for passion

Why else would you even attempt to look

We are all sexual, passion isn't just about sex it's about it all

You don't have to buy me dinner

But you could offer on the first date

Don't sweat it though, I've got my own money

I could pay, you also could have manners

Remember the past is the past

That's where it belongs, there are lessons to be learned of course 

But do I want to hear endless tales of 'the bitch I dated

Nope or you slagging off mutual friends that I see and like, not really

Things should be kept light

Don't swear and think it's clever

It's uncomfortable

It's crude and frankly chavtastic 

(you're no better than the people you slate!)

Keep it clean

A kiss can be enough

It can be an exhilarating rush

A slight brush well meant to touch of the hand can make that spark feel orgasmic 

Yes, I said it and if you didn't ever feel that

Get the fuck out, it's dead and it's time to move on

Don't doormat

Remember manners

Dating doesn't mean you're exclusive 

No-one owes you anything

Think you're playing it cool by being a shady as fuck

Player, fuck boy or really just a dick isn't cool

Reply when they message

Be early to a date

Be mindful that your time is valid as is theirs

Get to know the person you date

Find a mutual like, go with it

It's a date, it's meant to make your heart race

Not a heart attack, race, lust and totally bamboozle your mind and emotions 

No-one likes a flop!

People had a life before you came into it

They have friends

They dated

They made mistakes

They have things they like, you don't get to change that or make them feel bad

Guess what, if you make people feel bad for life choices when you weren't in the picture you're an abuser

So run folks, run

The reality is everyone wants different things

Not everyone wants to date people with children and that's okay

Not everyone wants children

That's also okay and you don't get to use the 'well I want kids so if we are going to stay together'

That bullying, bribing and emotional blackmail

I lost my son one guy wanted to marry me, me to have a tattoo with his name on, be on my lease and get pregnant within a month

Oh and told me I was crazy after leaving a note on my kitchen table ending it saying he's going to kill himself.

Closed all his social media telling me he's going to hibernate for three months

Okay then, three days later in Ferens walked right up to me and turned to look at a painting

I'll take crazy, go ahead

I have noticed that these guys with huge egos more often than not are on meds

Through them telling me

Look, we all have issues and problems, we are all human but if you don't at least be honest to your flaws why are you dragging someone in, knowing you'll end it mess someone around and make them feel things and lie?

Why would anyone waste their own time and emotions only to leave?

I have had dates where the guy thought it was okay to sexually assult me, only to claim he'd of given me everything

That guy also made me cancel plans with a friend because he was jelous 

Demanding I show him the text that I did it

One guy pulled my life apart

Why don't you work more?

Why don't you drive?

Why are you happy with not having more?

What if I left you at this gig all alone?

I ended that, months passed and then found text asking to meet me

This guy also suggested beastality 

Yes, you read right and I felt sick

There are more lowlights than highlights and I can't blame the men altogether as I could have walked away

Which I did and I didn't ghost as you've guessed it that's abusive and cowardly

Cutting someone off because you can't be a decent human and give even one fuck about someone isn't okay

That pain you are feeling in your self hate isn't nice but why would you want someone else to feel any self-loathing you do?

Let's be honest here if you ghost you're a total cunt

You're a selfish, low down fuckwit

Explain and let someone talk

Give someone peace, let them ask you things

It's therapeutic and should be for both sides

Things shouls always be able to end on a good note

It makes the break that so much easier and why wouldn't you want that?

Dating can be really good for the soul

You learn about yourself

You learn what you are looking for

What attracts you and what doesn't

So it may not all go well

But you can wish each other well

You can still remain, friends,

It can be healthy

People I dated maybe even once remain, friends, even years on

That feels fantastic

The word love shouldn't be used so freely

You don't love me after a week you lust me

You lust my body and you lust who I am

Don't rush it, stay safe

Welcome back to my blog

Here's my first blog of the year

Let's start the year with some love, love for yourself that is

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/setting-boundaries-benefits_us_57043126e4b0b90ac27088bb

This enlightening story

A reminder of why I am single 

https://www.littlethings.com/woman-crashes-her-own-funeral/

Remember it can be a success

http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/habits-of-people-in-the-healthiest-relationships_us_58b72329e4b019d36d1022fa 

Just don't date down

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/exv8am/how-to-survive-a-dry-spell-without-lowering-your-standards-263

Dating desperation

Via broadly 

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/43gybj/times-when-people-completely-failed-at-cyberstalking-their-crush

Oh, the ugly side

https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/j5eexy/narcissism-of-romantic-obsession

Remember though

http://motto.time.com/4740327/sociopath-common-characteristics/

Iconic images by 

Joel Meyerowitz

Via AnOther

http://www.anothermag.com/art-photography/9853/the-man-who-revolutionised-colour-photography

Frank Lloyd

Via

Apartment Therapy 

https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/frank-lloyd-wright-mushroom-house-sale-photos-252712

Arch daily

https://www.archdaily.com/874805/brick-curtain-house-design-work-group

A major collaboration

Via 

Highsnobiety

https://www.highsnobiety.com/p/adidas-calling-all-creators-film/

Anatomy

Via 

Designyoutrust.com

https://designyoutrust.com/2017/12/street-art-surgeon-cuts-open-cartoon-media-characters-reveal-anatomy/

At the weekend I was at Salt's Mill

Now, if you've been you'll know it's a totally amazing day out

Not only can you dine, shop and enjoy amazing art you can browse the shop that's full of amazing antiques

I always to buy homeware and books and have ordered this

I adore children's books, the choice there is honestly one of the best I have seen

I collect and really really wanted this book, however, I'd already bought another!

https://wordery.com/anatomy-jean-claude-druvert-9780500651360?currency=GBP&gtrck=a2JtRXo1SHh6Ni9zUzdCWTZTZnp3dGV0Nnpld1RkOU8wYklBeUwvM2Jnc053T3FaMFFoV3pPc2U2VHFMclFMdVNEMkRIRkdiUGU5U29lZG85WnQrZ0E9PQ&gclid=CjwKCAiAhMLSBRBJEiwAlFrsThosSaD94H-V4F1BQ4rPvp4CSgUVDLTonQC50aooZkGd5YEJn3izzhoCgIsQAvD_BwE

Design, decor and vintage 'chic

Via 

Vintage Los Angeles

Roller disco heaven

http://alisonmartino.blog/2017/05/18/flippers-roller-rink/

If you loved that, you'll adore this

Via

Vintage Everyday

http://www.vintag.es/2017/12/55-fascinating-photos-that-capture.html

Five and Dimes

Via 

Dirty Old Things

http://dustyoldthing.com/5-and-dime-memories/

Vintage film

http://laist.com/2017/07/18/gcm_clip_1963.php

 Prince, in all his glory pre-fame

https://amuse-i-d.vice.com/photos-of-pre-fame-prince/

Sauteed pears with bacon and a mustard dressing

Via

https://www.bonappetit.com/recipe/sauteed-pears-with-bacon-and-mustard-dressing

Curried lentil, tomato, and coconut soup

https://www.bonappetit.com/recipe/curried-lentil-tomato-and-coconut-soup

Queso

https://www.bonappetit.com/recipe/queso-fundido

This from Salt's Mill

http://www.saltsmill.org.uk/

The winner of best man is revealed 

Via 

Gaucamoleyhttp://www.guacamoley.com/covfefe/2018/01/07/2iAh3j/john-hodgman-notices-unsettling-trend-about-new-york-timesand-were-concerned

Someone made a thirty-eight-hour hip hop

playlist!!!!

https://noisey.vice.com/en_uk/article/rp7zk6/38-hours-of-playlists-that-trace-the-evolution-of-modern-hip-hop

I adore music, currently 

DISCO

Style Darling, style

DUDE

Via

Munchies

https://munchies.vice.com/en_us/article/nedw8d/drunk-dudes-makes-own-cheesesteak-at-empty-waffle-house

Food & Wine

http://www.foodandwine.com/travel/restaurants/pals-sudden-service-top-burger-chains

Hip-Hop dining

http://www.foodandwine.com/news/hip-hop-dinner-scout-pnw-seattle

Tomatillo toasts

http://www.foodandwine.com/recipes/tomatillo-toasts-prosciutto-and-manchego

The weird, the wonderful of life in Hull

Got to be part of this and was on the telly

https://www.facebook.com/HullCityofCulture/videos/1480353765419066/?hc_ref=ARQjFKQFi5T76jpqwhri27crLxvInlhp3juusAKKAa7EYw3SjfCF4fMmv08zs8u7KHg

When my name got spelled the worst 

The new place got an instant romantic makeover

Went to Sketch

Got dressed up for good messure

Took a Trip to Kevin Marshalls Antique Warehouse 

https://www.facebook.com/Kevin-Marshalls-Antiques-Warehouse-210283139002335/

An amazing bounty of everything fine, memorable and in abundance 

with my good friend Mike Watts

Went full on basic Hu5 bitch

Although I skipped the trench coat in favor of more stylish camel coat, take that edge off *I'm different, not different look like everyone else look

Went full on posh chic in Londons

Princi

These I made at work

My work really is this pretty

Savories made by myself

Pirelli

Via 

The Pool

https://www.the-pool.com/news-views/opinion/2017/46/tobi-oredein-on-pirelli-calendar-and-diversity

Home done baked eggs

Now this I can get on with

Gin

Via

Tasting Table

https://www.tastingtable.com/cook/recipes/cranberry-gin-cocktail-recipe

Cheese

https://www.tastingtable.com/cook/national/cheese-expiration

Ten adorable rentals on a tiny scale

https://www.tastingtable.com/travel/national/best-tiny-home-rentals

We all love a good prawn cocktail on Christmas day

And good gifts

With a well laid table

Zoo, Newland Avenue

At it's best!

L.A 

https://www.timeout.com/los-angeles/blog/halo-top-is-opening-a-scoop-shop-in-l-a-next-week-and-we-are-screaming-110717

All day every day

Via

Amuse

https://amuse-i-d.vice.com/a-look-at-the-lurid-colours-of-the-florida-project/

Times

Butternut patties 

https://cooking.nytimes.com/recipes/1014396-butternut-squash-and-sage-latkes

Eatery

https://la.eater.com/2016/12/15/13975726/know-reality-pie-eagle-rock-pie-maven

Till the next adventure!