I truly believe it's important to love yourself so many women are consumed by their age and their looks vanity and what people constantly think of them.

Firstly if you do not like yourself it is painfully obvious to other women that you don't.
Secondly trying to compete with women because you envy them for what they have/are do etc etc also is not a great look.
These things are all linked to lack of confidence and envy neither is a good quality both need to be dealt with accordingly too.

One is just as serious as the other and both eventually come to the surface and show people what and who you really are and actually can long term be a very very bad social disaster for the person.

Short term you'll get a kick think it's clever to kick someone down and bad mouth them to anyone you'll think will listen but then when the dust settles and people move on your left with the "is she still going on about it" and the "if she is saying that about that person are the genuine with me?"

 Being fake because of self hate and not dealing with a deeper issue is unhealthy and can lead to many serious mental illnesses if in fact they are not already there and in place.

I like to read current articles on self worth/self love and being a better person yo get to see a wider perspective on what women around the world think of themselves and how they go about day to day life in their skins.

I take people as I find them on face value and it always works to what I think.My inner voice tells me what is right and what is wrong.


Here are some links to wonderful articles

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dawn-gluskin/life-lessons_b_4629195.html?ir=Women

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/hannah-brencher/25-things-every-woman-needs-to-know_b_4057703.html

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/wendi-aarons/two-middleaged-women-ente_b_4681447.html